A thoughtful way to meet

From a first hello to a shared forever.

Four steps, in order. Most of what keeps this safe is what stays closed until you decide otherwise.

With faith at the heart

Step 1. Tell us who you are
What you do
Your parish, your church life, your work, and what you are looking for in a marriage. If you get stuck writing about yourself, we can draft something for you to edit. The words stay yours.
What we do
Nothing you write is visible to anybody until you publish it, and it is never visible to somebody who is not signed in.
What cannot happen yet
Nobody can find you yet.
Step 2. Prove you are real
What you do
Upload a passport, driving licence or national identity card, and a short selfie clip. It takes a minute.
What we do
Our software checks your document and video straight away, and the Administrative Department looks at anything it cannot settle. The document is stored apart from everything else, every time it is opened is recorded, and it is deleted thirty days after your check is finished.
What cannot happen yet
No member ever sees your document, and neither does anybody else.
Step 3. Meet people who share your values
What you do
Decide who you would like to meet: age, distance, church life, whether they want children. Then look through our suggestions.
What we do
We suggest members by faith, life stage and location, and we tell you why each one came up. Genotype is shown with a note, never used to rule somebody out. That is a conversation for you and a pastor, not a decision for a machine.
What cannot happen yet
They cannot message you, and you cannot message them.
Step 4. Talk when you both agree
What you do
Ask to connect. If they accept, a conversation opens between the two of you.
What we do
Voice and video calls take place entirely within the platform. You do not need to share your personal phone number or any other private information with your chat partner. Your personal information remains private and is not shared with the person you are communicating with.
What cannot happen yet
Either person may end the conversation at any time. You simply need to notify the other person that you have decided to end the conversation.